Oh My God, Me Married To A Cheating Man

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by Anne Sue Carman

If you are married to a cheating man, you will have at least one “other woman” in your life.

Obsessive thoughts most likely permeate most of your days So Who Is This Girl? What is She Like Really? What does The Other Woman Have To Offer that I Do Not Have For My Husband?

And more importantly, why does this other woman want MY husband in the first place?

There is a social stigma to this “Other Girl”. They are portrayed as loose, unethical women who prowl the nights out looking for prey to steal. Crap.

There are 2 types of woman - one who want a man and one who just want some sexual relationship with him.

Let us talk about The Other Woman that is NOT out to make your husband her own husband at all first.

These women are usually very busy, intelligent women who do not want a full-time relationship at all. Having an affair is actually a preferred situation to having as compared to a full-blown relationship.

She needs some attention, companionship, and yes, sex of course. and your husband needs a little more attention, companionshipand yes, sex too…

These types of affairs are not only about sex, but they are not nearly as highly charged emotionally as affairs that are had when your husband (and the Other Woman) fall in love over the heels with each other.

Now, the other type of Other Girl and your husband are involved emotionally. She will feel as if she does want to be his (your husband) wife and yes, your husband will start to believe that he wants to really be with the Other Woman, too usually.

These women are not “bad” or unethical, nor do they really lack moral fortitude. You, the betrayed wife, just want to find an easy scapegoat.

You just need a person to blame your cheating husbands actions on.

Ladies, let us get real. 99% of Other Women do not FORCE your husbands to stray and be with them.

These women simply accept what is being offered on the table, and for that one fact we should feel some bit of sadness for these people.

When you simply accept emotional or sexual affection from someone who has vowed those actions to one another, you are really selling yourself very short.

Regardless of what kind of problems the marriage had pre-affair, the infidelity of your husband is the fault of. well, your husband. Period.

WHY he did it may be something for the couple to deal with, but the act of actually DOING IT is the cheating husbands responsibility to begin with.

An affair is not the betrayed wifes fault at all, nor is it the Other Womans fault. Put the blame where it rightly deserves to beeven if you decide to KEEP HIM with you.

Do not fool yourself into thinking that just because YOU decided to stay married to him in spite of the sexual affair, that he suddenly is not accountable for his own actions and behave as if nothing has happened at all.

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