5 Great Steps To Getting A Girlfriend

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by Tyler Moss

Getting a girlfriend isn’t easy for most guys. Most men don’t know where to go to meet women, what they want from a woman, or even what they want from a relationship. But once you do find a great woman the advantages are great. You will be able to stop all this time waisting on women who aren’t suitable for you. Were going to take a look at a 5 step system that will help you find your dream girl.

Step 1: What Do You Want From A Relationship?

Its hard to find the right relationship if you don’t know what you want from a relationship. So you have to ask yourself some questions. “What is most important to me in a relationship?” “How will this relationship fit into my lifestyle?” If a woman can’t meet your relationship needs then she isn’t suitable to be your girlfriend.

Step 2: What Kind Of Woman Do You Want?

Some guys like short-term flings so that they don’t have to worry about what to look for in a woman. But for a good relationship you do need to worry about what you want in a woman.

What you should do is come up with a list of things that you want from a woman. It helps to even look at your own behavior. If your a neat freak then you may want a woman who is a neat freak. If you want a family type girl then you wont want to date a woman who hates her own family. Write a list of things you like or don’t like then be aware of those things when dating.

Step 3: Where Can I Meet Her?

You should try to meet women at places that interest you. If you like art then go to places where you can see art and learn about art. If you like live music then go check out some new bands playing in your area. If you want to stay away from girls who like to party then don’t go to clubs to meet women. This one is just common sense so use it.

Step 4: How Do I Approach Her?

This should be a piece of cake. If you like art, and you like women who like art, then what should you say to her? Something like, what do you think of that painting? Right! You simply start a conversation with her at an art gallery by talking about art. This makes the conversation very easy for both of you.

Step 5: How Do I Get Her Contact Information?

You can get her number fairly quickly if you want to. However, I recommend that you try to keep the conversation going for awhile. This pays off later when you are trying to make plans with her. In short it helps reduce flaks. You can try something like this. “I want to see you again. Put your number into my cell.”

Where To Go From Here

At this point moving forward you should be repeating the process. You don’t put all your effort into one woman until you are at the relationship stage. This is why it is called dating. You need to see what is out there and what your options are. Feel free to let the women know that you are dating other women at this time. This shows them that you respect them and that you are a man of integrity.

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