Responsibility and the Law of Attraction

by Colin Joss

One of the most powerful things we can do with our lives it to accept responsibility for it. Too many people don’t realize they do have control over what takes place. Even those things that they don’t, they can certainly choose how they allow it to affect them. Instead of making excuses though for things it is important to really take responsibility for all that has happened.

If you want the Law of Attraction to benefit you the most then you are going to have to accept that responsibility. You need to be willing to continue down that path from today for the rest of your life. If you don’t achieve what you want then that is your issue, it is not because of the actions of other people around you. It may sound like a heavy burden but it actually very freeing to understand that others aren’t to blame for your life.

The Law of Attraction focuses on our thoughts. What we think we ask for and get. In other words every thought is an intention. The Law of Attraction is neutral and non-judgmental - it does not sift through our intentions and decide what we deserve. Therefore we are responsible. If we focus on what we don’t want that is what we will receive.

In theory, all of this may should really good right? The truth is that it certainly can be. You also need to prepare yourself for some issues that are going to be in the way of you accomplishing your goals. You will have to choose if you are going to let these issues stop you in your tracks. If not, then devise a plan to get around them. While it may be difficult, if you continue to focus on your goals it can happen. If you succumb to the negative energy though you will never accomplish your goals.

There is no way to get around the issue of responsibility though when it comes to the Law of Attraction. You either commit to it with your whole mind and heart or you don’t. If you decide to commit to it then you will give yourself the power to control what is going to take place in your life. In order to do this, you are going to have to get rid of all that negative energy. This means you can’t allow yourself to think about what you don’t want to have happen. That is just a waste of your time and energy. Instead, empower yourself with positive energy by always visualizing what you want as well as how you are going to get it. At first you will have to recognize your negative behaviors and stop them. In time though you will find you can automatically switch to more positive aspects without much effort involved.

If you have children then you can easily relate to this story. It can be hard to deal with them when they are fighting with each other all the time. Maybe one of your children is prone to throwing a fit when they don’t get their own way. Yet the parent can take responsibility for what is going to take place. Many parents don’t realize that they actually end up attracting the negative energy from their children. For example they may give in when the kids act is such a manner so the cycle of it continues.

You do have the power within you to turn around the outcome of a given situation. Think about what it is that you really want and then seek to achieve it. Get rid of all those negative thoughts the second they enter your mind. This way you can continue to have high levels of positive energy around you. Back to our example, chances are the children will be able to pick up on that positive energy and it will completely transform the outcome of the day.

Of course it is easier to just let negative things happen and then to blame other people or outside forces for them. This is what happens when a person hasn’t fully committed to accepting the Law of Attraction and the element of responsibility. If you think that it is acceptable to just let things take place then you are going to surround yourself with negative energy. You may not even realize that it is happening.

Once we accept the Law of Attraction and acknowledge its power, our lives will change. We need to think of what we want and then expect it to show up. When we focus on or try to control the ‘how’ we get lost and block our achievement. When we relax, they will just happen. The right people will come our way, opportunities will fall into our lap and the whole universe will seemingly conspire to help us achieve our goal.

There is no middle of the road though when it comes to accepting such responsibility for your own life. You either do all the way or you aren’t there yet. It can take time to successfully change your outlook and your behaviors though. Make a commitment to work on it every single day so that it will become a natural part of who you are.

About the Author:

Colin Joss is the author of the best-selling law of attraction ebook Inspired Attraction. To find out how folk just like you - and two stars of The Secret - practice the law of attraction every day visit http://www.InspiredAttraction.com